by Anna Maria Hoffman          
Instead of honoring our nation’s heroes on September 11th, Hanna Rosin, who has recently praised the hookup culture as “an engine of female progress,” released her new book--The End of Men: And the Rise of Women. Inspired by her Atlantic article “The End of Men,” Mrs. Rosin wrote this new book to proudly proclaim how American women are being elevated in our society at the cost of devaluing men. Mrs. Rosin assumes that we women are finally winning our “struggle” for “gender equality.”   

Coming from a background where “women…either ruled over their husbands, or ran away from them,” Mrs. Rosin suggests that American cultural changes and economic recessions explain why women easily dominate men nowadays. And better yet, she implies that we have to accept these gender role changes because they are inevitable.

In the introduction of her book, Mrs. Rosin uses the story of two people—Bethenny and Calvin—to support her argument that women have progressed past men and no longer need them to raise children and live happily. Bethenny, a single mom who has a child with Calvin, explains to Mrs. Rosin that she sees Calvin as a man who “would just mean one less granola bar for the two of us”—a burden to her life and a shackle on her freedom. With regards to Calvin, Mrs. Rosin makes little mention of him and especially emphasizes how he cannot operate a 7-11 microwave without her help. She uses her depiction of Calvin to convey how American men have “lost the old architecture of manliness, but…have not replaced it with any obvious new one.” In Mrs. Rosin’s view, Bethenny and Calvin represent “the end of two hundred thousand years of human history and the beginning of a new era”—one that propagates reversed sexism and makes men second-class citizens.            

Mrs. Rosin acts as if she is just speaking factually about “gender role changes,” but a thinly-veiled gleeful tone underlies her rhetoric. The End of Men is not only something to be ambivalent toward. It's regarded by Mrs. Rosin as a good thing.

Although Mrs. Rosin says that she is not a radical feminist in her excerpt, the title of her book says otherwise. Shockingly enough, her husband had some questioning remarks about The End of Men:         

“As Hanna’s husband, I find this book – how to put this charitably? A mixed blessing? It’s very nice   
 for our checking account that she has been paid to write The End of Men. But really: What part of  
 our life together has prompted her to predict doom for me and my half the human race? Do I load 
 the dishwasher incorrectly? Have I botched the repair on the downstairs toilet one too many times? 
 Do I not talk about my feelings enough? And how is Hanna going to explain this book to our two            sons, when they get old enough to read it?”    

And like a typical third-wave feminist, Mrs. Rosin did not even bother to answer any of her  husband’s questions that were included in this section of her website, because, as she said, “this is my bio, so I will get back to talking about myself.” 

We, young women who look forward to starting our own families in the near future, do not look to Mrs. Rosin as the prime example of what it means to be a lady and a loving wife to our future husband. Real women do not denigrate men to advance themselves. Real women respect men for who they are and for being naturally different. 

“Gender equalitarianism” is harming our nation and is contributing to the erosion of our society’s stability, because it creates confusion and defies what is naturally human. Together, we can put a stop to it through the power of our own voices. We need to let all of the Mrs. Rosins out there know that they do not speak for us and never will.   
 


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amethyst kelly
09/19/2012 9:31pm

and you don't speak for her... I fail to see why this is even important? does hanna know you exist, let alone care about your future family planning? nobody's stopping you from getting married and pregnant just like no one' stopping her from sharing her beliefs with her supporters. if she doesn't speak for you then move on with your day.

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wow
03/22/2013 2:35pm

It's funny that it hurts your feelings that someone else has the right to disagree with Rosin.

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Johnny Whichard
09/19/2012 11:09pm

Anna Maria, your article is well thought out and beautiful! Keep fighting the good fight! Going against this type of "feminism" is one of the core issues our country has to face. False-victimization needs to die before our country will be free of all sexism and racism! This is a step in the right direction!

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J.
09/20/2012 1:49am

Johnny Whichard, This is not a "good fight!" As a believer in individual liberty, I believe any person is entitled to their own opinion. To say that her opinion "needs to die" is plain anti-everything about this country. Live and let live.

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Don Walden
09/20/2012 9:43am

Actually, "J", Johnny said "False victimization needs to die...", not Hanna's opinion. "Live and let live" is a euphemism for "I don't care about much of anything" and that's not much of a way to live, in my opinion.

Rosa
09/20/2012 7:42pm

Well said, Miss Hoffman! Well said!

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Cathryn
09/24/2012 6:14am

It is a wonderful viewpoint and I firmly believe you must stand firm. Your point of view is one where each person is respected for what they are made of and their place in life.
Those whom want to change nature are angry and violent in their view - because you cannot change nature. It is God and He is the Creator. They must deal with Him.
Bless you and again, stand firm in your belief.

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ELC
10/05/2012 8:20pm

I can only say one thing,it wont be long till shes the ex-Mrs Rosin,and I hope he takes those boys with him.

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wow
03/22/2013 2:42pm

If Rosin comes from that background of dominant women/useless men, as she describes, it's no surprised she has mental and psychological issues. These types of women whom I know very well (for some reason) really hate men and suffer from too many other mental disorders.

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